Sip and see RSVP

Visitors pick a half-hour slot, so the baby meets everyone without a crowd.

What's inside

Each half hour takes three households and shows as full when it has them. Visitors who pick a time say how many are coming and confirm they're feeling well; anyone who can't come gets a warm goodbye instead.

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    Your name
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    Pick a half hour2:00 to 2:30 pm2:30 to 3:00 pm3:00 to 3:30 pm3:30 to 4:00 pmI can't make it this time
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    How many of you are coming?Only if “Pick a half hour” is 2:00 to 2:30 pm, 2:30 to 3:00 pm, 3:00 to 3:30 pm, or 3:30 to 4:00 pm
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    Is everyone coming feeling well, with flu and whooping cough shots up to date?Yes, all goodNot sure, I'll check firstOnly if “Pick a half hour” is 2:00 to 2:30 pm, 2:30 to 3:00 pm, 3:00 to 3:30 pm, or 3:30 to 4:00 pm
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    A note for the new parents

Hosting a sip and see

A sip and see is a relaxed visit to meet a new baby, usually four to twelve weeks after the birth, with drinks and something small to eat. Many families hold one instead of a shower, or in addition to it.

Short slots protect the baby's routine and the parents' energy. Two hours split into four half hours lets twelve households visit, and nobody arrives at the same moment as everyone else.

The health question is a yes or a not-sure, nothing more. Many parents ask visitors to be up to date on whooping cough and flu shots; message anyone who answers not sure before the day.

If friends ask how they can help, share a meal train sign-up at the same time. The notes for the parents are worth keeping for the baby book.

Sip and see questions

What's the difference between a sip and see and a baby shower?

A baby shower is before the birth and usually involves gifts and games. A sip and see is after, and the point is meeting the baby. Gifts are optional. Visits are short, so guests usually bring something small, like a book or a meal for the freezer. Say in the intro if you'd rather have no gifts at all, and guests will follow your lead.

Can I change the slots?

Yes. Edit the times, add a slot, or set a different number of households per slot. Each one shows how many places are left. Keep each slot at 30 minutes or longer, since a feed or a diaper change can take half of a shorter one. If the baby needs a nap, leave a gap between two slots.

Does the form collect medical information?

No. It asks one yes or not-sure question, so you know whom to check with. Nobody uploads or types any records. A not-sure answer still saves the visit, so message that household a day or two before and agree together whether to come or pick a later slot. Change the wording if your pediatrician gave you a different list of shots.